Chinese Kim (part 14)
I had a pretty normal life, except that my wife was transgendered, but most of the world knew her as a genetic woman. Our normal life suddenly changed with a new addition! I hope you enjoy this work of fiction.
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"Just one thing first," said Kim, "I want you to talk to my Uncle Bill."
"What?" shot back Brad. "I've heard of asking a father for a daughter's hand in marriage, but not to ask permission to have sex – he'd probably kill me!"
"It will be alright," said Kim, "Please trust me on this, and arrange to see him as soon as you can."
"Can I see him tonight?" asked Brad.
"I'll check with him and call you," said Kim.
Brad hugged Kim closely and said, "This just seems so incredible – you aren't just messing with me, are you?"
"No dear," assured Kim, "And after you talk with Uncle Bill you will see for yourself."
When Kim got home she asked me if Brad could come over tonight and talk with me. I agreed, not sure what this was going to be like. I had no experience with these sorts of talks, so I spent some time collecting my thoughts.
Brad arrived and I braced myself for an awkward discussion. He had been over many times and we felt that we knew him well. But this time the discussion was very serious. I decided to get things started with the most difficult part.
"So now you know that Kim is transgendered," I said, "So now what?"
Brad was obviously as nervous about this as I was – probably more so. He answered, "Much will be the same – she is the same Kim, but now she had entrusted me with her secret."
"Yes, it is a great trust," I said, "And do you know what could happen if you violate that trust?"
"I would never do that!" insisted Brad, "I love Kim."
"I'm sure you do," I agreed,"And I hope your relationship lasts, but many do not. If you do move on, do you know what could happen if you don't keep her secret?"
"I'm not sure," Brad admitted, "But I wouldn't."
"I sincerely hope not," I said, "But it could be fatal for Kim."
"I've read about that," agreed Brad, "But I thought that was pretty rare."
"It may be, but much more common is harassment," I said, "which is very common, and often includes physical abuse. That is why I cautioned Kim about sharing her secret with anyone, including you."
"But now I know," said Brad, "Do you regret that?"
"I know that Kim has wanted to share that with you for a long time," I said, "But I am nervous about you keeping her secret forever – forever is a very long time!"
"I understand," said Brad, "And I am committed to protect Kim. One day I expect to ask you for her hand in marriage, but I never expected to have this conversation with you!"
"Now let's move on to the part that you are probably most nervous about," I said, "Sex."
"Yes," agreed Brad, "I am nervous about that."
"Then let's call it intimacy," I said, "Intimacy is not about simply getting off – it is a wonderful sharing, and I hope that you and Kim can have something wonderfully special. As a transgendered girl, things will be different, and there are some advantages."
"Advantages?" asked Brad.
"Well, there is no risk of pregnancy, no periods or PMS," I said.
"That is quite an advantage," agreed Brad, "My buddies complain about how moody their girlfriends can get."
"Have you noticed that Kim dresses a little differently than other girls?" I asked.
"Yes, I have," Brad said, "Other girls wear pants a lot, and I don't think I've ever seen Kim in pants – always a skirt or dress. Kim is actually more feminine than other girls!"
"That's true," I said, "Do you know what makes Kim a girl?"
"I'm not sure I understand," replied Brad.
"Well, is Kim really a girl or not?" I asked.
"Yes, sure she is a girl - she just wasn't born a girl," said Brad.
"So what about her makes her a girl?" I asked once again, "She has not had gender reassignment surgery."
"I don't know," said Brad, "I just know I think of her as a girl."
"As you should," I said, "Even during intimacy. What makes her a girl is between her ears, not between her legs."
"I think I get it," Brad agreed, "The key to gender dysphoria is a girl's brain in a boy's body."
"You understand it better than most," I said.
"Anal sex is an important part of intimacy with a girl like Kim," I said, "Do you know much about that?"
"Just that it is tighter," Brad said.
"Yes," I agreed, "and that is good for you, but might be rough on Kim."
"I'm not sure I understand," said Brad.
"Well, when you are aroused, you can't just plow into her," I explained, "You need to enter slowly or it can be incredibly painful, and you have to be careful about bottoming out."
"Bottoming out?" Brad asked.
"When you go deep in a vagina you hit the cervix, which actually can feel good for a woman, but when you do deep anally, it can hurt," I explained, "So you have to explore a bit and see how deep you can go."
"I didn't know that," said Brad, "I want our intimacy to be wonderful, without any bad parts."
"Kim knows that cleanliness is very important," I continued, "and there may be times that she is not clean enough for lovemaking, so you should not push her about it."
"That sounds like something very short term," said Brad, "Not like a period."
"Definitely much better than a period!" I agreed and we shared a laugh.
"There is one other thing I should cover with you," I said, "What do you call what is between Kim's legs?"
"It's got a name?" Brad asked. I shook my head and we both laughed about it.
"No," I said, "At one time she had a penis, but now it's a clitty, and its function is to give pleasure to the woman. Don't you dare ever refer to Kim as a 'girl with a dick' or you'll be in deep shit with her!"
I told Brad to give me his email address so I could send him an internet link to an article called "How to date a Tgirl" – he said he was grateful for any help.
"There is just one other thing," I said, "As part of protecting Kim's secret, I want you both to be very careful where you have any kind of intimacy, even is it is just touching – I want you to know that it's okay for you to use Kim's bedroom at any time – just let us know when you don't want to be disturbed."
"Wow!" said Brad, "I sure never expected that!"
"I've been protecting Kim up to now," I said, "And now you are taking some of that on, and I want you to be successful!"
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Feel free to contact me with your comments or requests. –Bill (oral_guy_2000@yahoo.com)
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