Lacey's World 006
Lacey muses on the Joys of Anal Sex
So why do I love anal sex sooooo much? I don't know. Well, that's the simple answer. There are those who say that it harks back to the nappy or something. Personally I couldn't care. I just like it! I like giving it, and I like taking it. And there are so many ways of enjoying it.
It is not something I undertake without preparation. Those who have read my writings previously, or who have chatted with me at #niftygirls, will know that I insist on cleanliness. I am not a scat freak. Far from it. But with a little thought that does not really come into it. An enema can be good foreplay too.
OK. I know there are some of you who are saying, "What is an enema?" Basically it is a method of flushing out your lower colon - colonic irrigation - and can be done simply and efficiently. Your local pharmacy can supply you with an enema kit, ready to go. The basics are a bag full of sterile solution, a tube and a thin nozzle to insert into your ass. Sit on the toilet and, holding the bag at about shoulder height, insert the nozzle into your bum (can be vagina after intercourse - a douche) and gently squeeze the contents of the bag into yourself. Remove the nozzle and hold it in for a minute or so, then release the whole lot into the toilet. Be warned, it can go with a rush! You can do it twice if you want to be really sure that nothing is left behind. You now have a nice clean bum. I find it feels nice, and I know it is nicer for my partner, who, when we 69 has her nose stuck in my ring etc. For Angie and I it is part of the foreplay for us. We give each other the enema, and enjoy the other's touch and so on. It is not done alone, behind closed doors. Because we often have enemas, we have invested in an attachment which screws onto the bath shower attachment, instead of the usual spray handset. It looks like a cigar tube with holes in it, and has another tube so that it can rinse out at the same time. I would kneel on the tiled floor in the bathroom and Angie would ready the water, testing temperature and pressure. Then with the drain tube hanging into the toilet, she would insert the spray end into my ass, and basically gently fuck me with it, whilst all the crap flows out and into the toilet. Simple! Then we swap places and I do it to her. Clean bums with the minimum of fuss, and lots of fun. It is amazing how many girls don't think about this step of cleanliness before having sex, whether straight or lesbian, and yet they wish their partner would stick fingers/tongues/toys up there and somehow magically not get a brown, smelling, coating on it. Come on girls! Where are your brains?
I always feel a certain excitement when I put on a strap-on. I know what I am going to do, and I know with whom, and I know that it is going to be good. Feeling the front pad of the strap up against my mound, holding the shaft as I tighten the waist and leg straps, possibly even inserting a butt plug into myself as well, it is all part of the build up. Angie bought me a wonderful toy for last Christmas, which I love to use, and so does she (she has one as well). It is called the Nexus, and can be obtained from //www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys/vixen_dildos.html#t-vxn-1185. I am not an agent for them (I wish I were), but they do have remarkable toys, which I can promise you are fantastic. The Nexus is a double-ended cock dildo that I insert into myself and fuck Angie with, with the other end. I can feel everything that I do, and she does, and if we know we are going to be 'frisky' I keep it in with the double-trouble harness that Vixen can supply as well (t-stl-1310). Actually the double harness is also great if you want to double entry fuck, as you can use the Nexus and an ordinary cock dildo at the same time - one for the back and one for the front! Genius! It takes a couple of tries, but it is well worth the effort.
The last ingredient, and often the most important, is a good water based lubricant. In Britain the most widely available lube is KY Jelly, from virtually any pharmacy, but if you ask you can also get nice purse-sized sachets as well, should you find that a tube is too big or bulky. I use 'Wet Light' or 'Maximus', both of which come in sachets about the same size as ketchup portions. I have always found that it is essential to use lube, maybe because I really do have a tight ass like my friends tell me!
So there we have the makings for a good anal session, a clean bum, a method of penetration, and a lube to help it on its' way. But like everything to do with enjoying sex, it is a two-way occasion. I am not into the dominant-submission scene at all, but into sharing to build up the excitement. I like to start in a relaxed atmosphere, that is friendly to both (or all if there are more than two). So it would be "My place or yours?" to begin with probably, with the assurance of little distraction to spoil the ambience. If this were a first time with the other, I would be matter-of-fact about going to the toilet to give myself an enema, and would she like to watch, or help. Then as we do it, a suggestion from me to help her do herself normally gets the right response and we start to 'climb the staircase to heaven'.
Sitting on the toilet is not one of the world's most sexiest positions, but to have your partner kneeling beside you as you insert a tube up your ass is very exciting, even if it doesn't sound it. Both of us naked, it is an ideal time to caress breasts, kiss, suck, everything so close, plus the feeling of warmth in my bowels. Even emptying out heightens the sensations. Then there is the swap-round, and I am touching and stroking, my head close to her breasts, able to lick and suck as my hands find her cunt, flaps, ass-hole. Afterwards a shower together, warm water, shower gel, stroking hands down her spine, probing kisses, holding her ass cheeks, wiping the wet hair out of her face, tongue to tongue, breast to breast. Lovely! Then into enormous warmed bath sheets. Rubbing each other dry, her hair, face, neck, shoulder blades, breasts, flat tummy, legs. Watching her nipples harden as my towelling teases them to stand up. Kneeling on the floor with my eyes at her pubic level to dry her legs. Leaning forward and burying my face in her soft cleft. Smelling the shower gel, with the strengthening musky smell of her excitement. My hand between her legs, stroking that sensitive piece of skin between one hole and another. Feeling her juices. Slipping a finger into the wet well. Sliding that wet finger back over the other inviting hole. Feeling the crinkley skin tighten and pucker as my finger gently pushes itself in, but not actually entering. She puts her hands on either side of me head as I lick her slit, guiding me, pushing me in deeper, harder. I lie on my back and she kneels over me, her legs each side of my head. I hold her bum cheeks apart and lick her cunt and ass-hole. She dips her head and responds in the same way. Together we pleasure each other, our tongues and fingers slipping on our partner's wetness. Smell, taste, sight, and touch all conspire together. Then the feeling of approaching pain/pleasure. Everything becomes distant, and my head is filled with the on-coming flood. Waves of 'feelings' wash over me. I can feel my body convulse as though shocked. I feel my partner's mouth and tongue on my cunt, taking the cyprian juices as they squirt out of me, urging me to give more. Then I peak into 'too much land' and have to ask my partner to stop before the pleasure becomes real pain. As my red waves recede I concentrate on her, using every trick I know I bring her to the place I have just left and feel her jerk and judder at the end of my tongue. She falls to one side on the tiled floor of my shower room. I swivel and meet her searching mouth. We kiss our arms each cradling the others' body. And this is just the beginning.......
Fresh warm towels take us into the bedroom. I love the feeling of fresh warm towels. I tumble dry them, as air-drying towels make them scratchy and hard. And they have to be big, six feet by six feet square. I keep them in the hot cupboard where the hot tank is. What a pity that modern houses now have boilers with hot water on demand, as they don't have a hot cupboard any more. No hot towels!
We collapse onto my king-sized bed. It is set in a corner of the room, with two long shelves on the wall running the length of the bed. The ceiling-to-floor mirror doors of the wall-to-wall wardrobe on the wall opposite reflects my collection of toys on those shelves, gathered over the last few years. Dildoes, butt plugs and vibrators stand in rows, each a different size, shape, and colour, each promising a different delight to the user and recipient. The strap-on harnesses hang on hooks at the end, and along the front edge of the bottom shelf. There hang thong harnesses, snug spandex shorts with the business end of a dildo harness built in, dildo harnesses for double dildos, two hole harnesses so that the wearer can have a dildo up her and still give it to another, a harness for my favourite Nexus, a face harness that lets me strap a dildo onto my chin, rather than my hips, and another that straps to my leg so my partner can sit on my knee and have a dil up her cunt or ass to fuck herself on whilst we kiss/lick/suck/cuddle.
Selection can be quite a task. I have known my partner Angie lay on her back on the bed and kick the underneath of the lowest shelf with a raised leg until something falls off. 'Natural selection' she calls it! Other times I may get a telephone text message during the day telling me that she is going to fuck me with one that she names when she gets home. I love the excitement of expectation that comes with that. Walking through the shops or whatever, knowing that I will be shafted with a particular toy in a particular way later in the day, normally ends in squashy knickers! Or I may 'phone her and tell her that I am sitting with a particular one in me as I speak, getting myself off, with her sitting at her Office desk, frigging her clit as well.
With a toy selected, I must decide whether I will use a harness or just hold it in my hands. If a harness is needed then the act of putting it on becomes a ritual, like donning armour before a battle. The toy must be lubricated, and that in itself is another joy to me, feeling the length of it pass through my hands as I spread the slippery stuff, sensing each lump, bump, vein, thickness, softness or hardness, bendability.......
Positioning the recipient comes next. On her back with her legs apart and her feet high in the air? Angie and I both have totally hairless pussies. When she lies on her back like that, I see her slot with its darker red interior, and puffy lips which, when held apart a bit, reveal her clit. I love her on all fours, when she shows me her cunt topped by her anus, a darkish brown crinkley ring. I am on my knees, holding the shaft of a cock shaped dildo, which is strapped, to me over my pubic bone. The front plate is brushing against my clit, which is about 3/4 to an inch long when erect. I feel the slickness of the lube as I slide my hand up and down the shaft. I shuffle along the bed, watching the distance between the tip of my cock and her anus shorten. I reach over and apply a small amount of lube to her ring, seeing it tighten and relax with the coolness of the gel. Then my knees are between her open knees. The tip of my cock is kissing her anus. I nudge with my hips, feeling the front plate caress my clit. I position the tip and then hold her hips. Her head raises slightly, and I know her eyes are shut as she relaxes that one muscle. I push gently and the tip starts to enter. I pull slightly on her hips and it continues to slip in, her ring opening to allow the flared head of the plastic cock to enter her. The first inch is in and her ring closes over the back of the cock head, down onto the veined shaft of the dildo. I let her get used to the intruder and then push again. Slowly the shaft slides into her. At three inches I stop and withdraw and inch, then rest for 20 seconds. Then again I start to push, but this time in a slight fucking, in and out, motion, getting deeper and deeper with each little thrust. Gradually I feed the cock into her bum hole, until all six inches have disappeared and she can feel the false balls against her cunt slit.
I adore the feeling of a dildo as it slides into my arse, and I always concentrate on each sensation, the skin dragging at my entrance, the head working its way into me, her hands on my hips, the slightly speeded up breathing of my partner and I, the feeling of fullness in my bottom. I often clench my muscles in my lower abdomen in order to feel the ridges and veins as they are pushed into me, closing down on the girth of the monster invader as it comes and goes. Sometimes I can climax on just anal stimulation, other times I reach under and frig my clit and cunt lips. I maybe fuck my cunt with another toy whilst being bum-fucked, either keeping in rhythm or using the opposite, pushing mine in as she pulls her's out. Sometimes Angie stops and pulls out of me altogether. Then I feel her weight change on the bed as she bends down and inserts her tongue into my (clean!) ass hole, licking the inside and the tender skin between my two holes. Or she may insert a finger or two, now that my hole is open. With her thumb in my cunt and two fingers in my ass, she can fuck me quite hard/quick/deep, straight-arming me whilst I brace myself against the bed-head over the pillows.
Angie likes me sometimes to fist her whilst licking her ass. She always tells me to take my wristwatch off, because it scratches (ho!ho!). I lube my hand and push it into her puss, rotating it one way then the other, so as to ease it in. I normally kneel beside her, so I can push my hand in and lick her offered brown ring at the same time. Sometimes she wants me to use ass beads on a strip, so that I can push them in and out as I ease into her cunt. I like watching them pop out of her ass, or push against her ring and plop in. When I have my hand right in I can feel the soft entrance to her uterus. I have to be careful as she has a coil up there, one of the ones that release hormones as well. We both got them fitted, and now we don't have the problems of menstruation getting in the way of work or fun. We still feel shitty every month but no spotting or anything. Sometimes she likes me to fuck her with a soft five inch butt plug she likes, with me holding the 't' bar end and working it in and out her ring, so the bulb end continually stretches her muscle and then closes over the thin neck end. I love it when she fucks my ass with a 7-inch dil that is a series of lumps. I can feel each one as it passes through my entrance, but it slips in and out easily. It has a diameter of about 11/2 inches and the thickest one I have is actually 2 inches across. To take that one I have to start on something thinner and work up to it, as there is no way that I can stretch to 2 inches straight off.
Well enough of my ramblings. As you can realise now, I love anal and all things associated with it. I like taking and giving, and I am blessed with a partner, Angie, who is like-minded. If you want to try and have not plucked up the courage, try on your own. There are plenty of toys that are thin so that you won't get hurt. Take your time, and use plenty of lube. Work up to the bigger ones when you get more confidence, or stay with the size that you like. If you try with a partner, make sure that both of you realise that stop means stop! Agree on a 'definite stop word' and trust your partner to stop when you use it. Sometimes it happens that something you have tried before just isn't working. Don't be put off, try something else. And remember "There is nothing new under the sun", so if you think of it, ten-to-one someone has tried it before you. Just enjoy!
More from Lacey another day.........