This is a story about sensual contact between adult men. If you are offended by this, please read no further.
Prostate Massage: Part 1
In my ten year career as a massage therapist, I've had moments with a male client when my intuition told me that he was yearning for his anus to be massaged. When I am working on his lower back, thighs, or buttocks, sometimes he raises his ass slightly, almost trying to force contact between my fingers or hands and his anus. I see a lot of erections under the sheets, but I've always set the client at ease with comments like, "Hey, it's natural. It happens all the time."
Recently, I've discovered the benefit of Yoga and meditation for my own wellness. Yoga has greatly improved my ability to live in the moment, to breathe. I find that I am happier, more at peace, and more energized. I have more sexual energy that feels grounded and fulfilling. I attended a clinic for gay men based on Joe Kramer's "The fine art of male genital massage/anal massage." I've always enjoyed anal sex, both as a top and bottom, and I've occasionally used sex toys when I masturbate, but I had never seriously considered the benefit of yoga, breathing, and anal massage for clients.
After this clinic, I was eager to practise yoga and anal massage with male clients. I decided to sell my business and open a new yoga/tantric massage clinic. I advertised on line and in a local gay/lesbian paper. I soon got more calls and clients than I could keep up with. I found there was a huge demand for men who wanted to safely explore anal work.
Here are a few stories of things that I've done with/for clients.
I always discuss for at least an hour their needs and what I can offer. We always start on the yoga mats wearing shorts, doing yoga to warm up, centre, focus our breathing and stretch. We usually end up in table pose (on all fours), doing cat/cow movement slowly with each inhale/exhale. We add the anal clenching/relaxing, that flexing that could cut off the urine flow while you are peeing. Once we are focused, relaxed, and breathing deeply and evenly, the client will lie on his back while I help him remove his shorts. I always wear latex gloves before I begin genital contact.
I begin by working some lubricant on the taint between the scrotum and anus, working a little into the anus with a finger. I am amazed at how hard the cock gets when I do this to a client. I remind him to keep breathing evenly and deeply throughout the massage. I find that if a client is particularly tense, anal massage gives him the greatest stress relief. I will work a finger into the anus, and encourage him to release any sounds or noises that will release the tension. Soft moans often start but usually build to louder, more erotic outburst. Once he is open enough to take the full length of my finger, I can rub his prostate inside with my finger and outside with my thumb. Just awakening the prostate brings him and me such joy. One client welled up with tears of joy. Others just sigh in incredible relief. The amazing thing is that every man I've done this to is rock hard, without ever touching his cock. I have him keep his hands at his side to help balance his core. I let him rest his feet of the floor, insert one or two finger with my tips right on his prostate, then ask him to raise and lower his hips in a rocking motion that is comfortable to him, reminding him to breathe deeply and slowly with each motion. Essentially, my fingers are just a prop on which he is learning to fuck himself, but my finger tips are skilled at rubbing and stroking the prostate with each pass. I have one client who will simply fuck himself like this for 30 minutes. Without ever touching himself, he always has an amazing orgasm. He's the kind of guy who really moans loud when he cums. He always cleans up his orgasm with his hands and swallows his own cum, with the same moans of satisfaction and delight.
After the prostate rocking on my fingers, I'll offer many variation of things: using enemas, anal beads, prostate toys, or dildos to keep up the massage. The one thing I encourage all my clients to do is to enjoy the moment and not to jack off. I've never had a client leave unsatisfied! So many of them are surprised that it is possible to have an orgasm without ever touching their cocks!
My newest clients seem to be married men (who are either straight or bi). They have heard of the joys of prostate massage, but feel paralyzed to seek this kind of joy from their wives. While I would love to teach this to couples, most men are not willing to tell their wives that they come to me for this service. I have never fucked or sucked off a client, yet I feel such satisfaction helping them to enjoy this anal pleasure. It is such a grounding and incredible stress relief. I have one client who has a high powered job, and he comes in every Monday after work to "unwind" with this work. Most of my clients tell me of the deep sense of joy and satisfaction and calm that they feel after anal massage.
Now I run clinics in small groups of 8 people (including me). We pair up and do anal massage on each other after a full hour of yoga and meditation. The sexual energy in the room is incredible as four of us are getting anally serviced by the other four. After we each peek, we switch and return the favour for the partner. These groups have become very popular. People are finding a deep sense of joy and satisfaction without ever even fucking each other.
I continue to seek new ways of helping men to explore the joy and intensity of prostate and anal massage. Keep checking back, and maybe I'll post some more stories!
Tim Housen stretch2009yoga@yahoo.com