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..How many of you learned to jerk off on you own? did you hear about it from another guy? Did anyone actually show you (like a brother or a friend)? did you ever do it with another guy (individually or to each other). > >I would like to get e-mail from anyone that would like to share their first time or their experiences during their early adolecense! ________________________________________________________________________ When I was around 11, maybe early 12, I would sit on the toilet for way too long looking at pictures in National Geographic (We had a huge collection & there were plenty of naked African ladies pictured) or reading some forbidden thing I'd found in a book. Chose the bathroom because at that age it was the only place I was guaranteed privacy. Would sit with my hard dick between the seat and my closed legs and that felt really good. Finally I learned to stimulate my cock with my hands but rather than fisting, I would roll it between my palms really fast. When I was about to come, I'd lean forward and blast the jets of semen into the toilet. Anyone one else do it that way?
Eventually I discovered the fist. Not sure how, as I pretty much never dicussed whacking off at that age. Maybe it came about when I began to j/o in the bath. Could be that the soap made my dick too slippery to control when rolled between my palms and I finally just grabbed it. Do remember that I quickly found that soap made a very bad lubricant! After massaging my cock with it long enough to come, my penis would get incredibly red and raw. Yow! (Sidelight: A girl I know started her jilling off career by rubbing her pussy with a bar of soap while in the bath. Soon learned that it would leave her clit as red & raw as my cock, so she moved on to other techniques.)
Come to think of it, I may have grabbed my dick to masturbate after a friend I was visiting in Maine when I was 13 asked if I masturbated. Before I could even answer he said, "Of course you do," then held up his hand like the OK sign to show that was his method of gripping his penis and did I do it that way? But, I was too shy to discuss it and we dropped the subject. May well have later tried his way and found it easier for me to just grab the whole thing and whack away.
One last thing re: abstinence. Because I confessed this habit to my mother I was told that, while it was natural, I should try to not do it. Well, at one point I did try and went about six weeks without beating off. Helped that we were on a family vacation in England & I had little privacy anyway. Finally had "too much" privacy and a bathtub with an adjustable shaving mirror on the island of Guernsey. Looking in the mirror while I soaped up my rapidly inflating cock was too much for my 13-yr. old hormones and I quickly beat off to a great orgasm. Really cool, too, to see in the mirror the pent up thick, white come spurt into the air. Felt guilty and laid off for two more weeks, then had a wet dream at my grandmother's house in Canterbury. At that point I figured my body wasn't going to leave me alone and thought, "Fuck it." If you can't beat 'em... well, beat it! Now, 20 years later, I still jack off 5-10 times a week, unless I have a girlfriend in town. Even then we incorporate masturbation into our games.
Would like to know how other men and women discovered self-amusement. This IS one of the best groups for constructive criticism and actual sharing. Can't believe how crude and flame-oriented many of the others are. Alt.christnet is the worst I've seen. (I'm not being anti-religious, it's just that all people do on it is rip into each other in the crudest, least constructive way.) It's truly scary. Alt.sex.fetish.size is low key and sometimes interesting, but not many people seem to use it. Of course, it's quite new.
Anyway, keep up the good work!
Tom